When Emma was just five, she fell in love with the magic of holiday cookie exchanges thanks to our wonderful neighbor, Jeannie. Each year, as the air turned crisp as it can in Arizona and festive lights began to twinkle, Jeannie hosted her legendary holiday cookie exchange. It was more than just a gathering; it was an experience that her friends eagerly anticipated, and little Emma was utterly captivated by it.

Jeannie’s cookie exchange was a cherished event, meticulously crafted with love and holiday cheer. She invited all her close friends to bring a batch of their favorite cookies, a delicious side dish, and a bottle of wine. The evening was a warm, bustling celebration where each guest shared not only their holiday treats but their stories, laughter, and holiday memories. Supporting Jeannie in her hosting duties was her own little elf, her husband, Andy. While Jeannie organized the party, Andy would artfully arrange the hundreds of cookies on festive platters, turning Jeannie’s home into a winter wonderland of sweet treats. Once his work was done, he’d slip away to listen to the laughter and joy that filled their home, content with the happiness he helped bring.

Emma was too young to attend the party officially, but that didn’t stop her from sneaking over to catch glimpses of the cookie-filled extravaganza. Each year, she’d tiptoe next door, eyes wide in wonder at the sight of tables laden with colorful, beautifully decorated cookies. Every corner was filled with sugary delights—gingerbread men, chocolate crinkles, peppermint bark, and sugar cookies covered in red and green icing. The scents of vanilla, cinnamon, and chocolate would drift out to greet her as she peeked inside, and she’d manage to sneak away with a cookie or two, delighted with her "secret" stash.

Watching Jeannie’s cookie exchange was magical for Emma, and it didn’t take long before her admiration grew into something more. Inspired by Jeannie’s warm holiday gathering, Emma decided to start her own cookie exchange at just five years old. That first year, it was small, just a few friends and a simple plate of homemade cookies, but Emma’s enthusiasm was boundless. She loved choosing which cookies to bake, arranging them on plates, and sharing them with her friends. Over time, Emma’s cookie party grew, and now, all these years later, it has become a tradition in its own right, honoring the love and magic of Jeannie’s original gatherings.

Today, Emma’s cookie exchange is a full-fledged holiday event. Just like Jeannie, she invites friends to bring their favorite cookies and share in the holiday spirit. Emma added a decorating element to the exchange that friends can engage in their own creativity.

Inspired by Jeannie’s traditions, Emma has added her own special touches to her cookie exchange, creating a warm, inviting space that captures the magic she felt as a child. Hosting a cookie exchange may seem like a lot of work, but with a bit of planning and a lot of heart, it’s a beautiful way to celebrate the season. Here are some of Emma’s favorite tips for hosting a memorable cookie exchange:

Tips for Hosting a Cookie Exchange Party

1. Set the Date Early: The holidays are a busy time for everyone, so send invitations early! A festive e-invite can add to the excitement and give guests plenty of time to plan.
2. Establish the Cookie Rules: Ask each guest to bring a set number of cookies, enough to share and exchange. You might also want to suggest they bring recipe cards to share with each cookie, so everyone can recreate their favorites at home!
3. Add a Little Something Savory: Cookies may be the star of the show, but a few savory snacks help balance the sweetness. Cheese boards, vegetable platters, and mini sandwiches are great additions.
4. Set Up a Cookie Display Table: Arrange the cookies beautifully on a designated table. Use tiered trays, holiday platters, and decorative elements like pinecones or fairy lights to add a festive touch.
5. Label the Cookies: Place small cards in front of each cookie variety to let guests know what they’re trying. This is especially helpful for those with allergies or dietary preferences.
6. Include Festive Packaging: Provide small bags, boxes, or tins for guests to take their cookie haul home. You can even set up a little “packaging station” with ribbon, twine, and tags for a fun, interactive touch.
7. Add Some Holiday Sips: Alongside the cookies, serve up some warm drinks like hot cocoa, spiced cider, or mulled wine. These cozy drinks add to the festive atmosphere and pair perfectly with the cookies.
8. Play Holiday Tunes: Create a playlist of classic holiday songs to set the mood. A little music adds warmth and fun to the gathering.
9. Snap Some Photos: Capture the joy of the evening! A “photo corner” with festive props or a designated space for group photos is a fun way to document the memories.
10. Share a Toast: Before the party wraps up, gather everyone to share a holiday toast. It’s a heartfelt way to thank your friends for coming and celebrate the season together.

Hosting a cookie exchange, as Emma learned from Jeannie, is about more than just cookies. It’s about connection, laughter, and creating memories with the people you care about. Whether you’re starting a new tradition or continuing an old one, a cookie exchange brings a little extra sweetness to the season and reminds us of the joy found in sharing.

May your cookie exchange be filled with as much magic, warmth, and joy as Jeannie’s party brought to Emma—and that Emma’s brings to her friends each year. Happy baking and happy holidays!